We here at Fusion Wellness PT consider pain free sex an important factor of aging healthfully! Today we talk about two common orthopedic complaints when engaging in penetrative sex: achy backs and bad hips.
As we all know, sex is an important activity for many and an important aspect of quality of life, especially as we age. In this article we’ll cover some common orthopedic issues associated with penetrative sex that people have with sex as they age and some suggestions for what you can do about it.
Do you avoid sex due to your back pain? Does a session of sex leave your back throbbing the next day?
First of all, not all sex positions are one size fits all. Depending on the type of back injury you have and which movements aggravate it, different sex positions will be more appropriate for you. Some people get backaches with spinal flexion (like the position bending over to tie your shoe or bending forward), while others become more aggravated with spinal extension (leaning backward or arching). Layered on top of this, some people experience more back pain with excessive movement, while others do not. Various sex positions can decrease or increase these types of movements, aggravating or allowing pain-free movement.
This is when the help of a doctor, DO, chiropractor, physical therapist or occupational therapist can be very helpful as they can help evaluate and assess what type of back pain you have and which motions are safe and pain free for you.
Again, sex positions are not one size fits all! Whether you are giving or receiving penetration, various sex positions demand different things from your body. For those of you who do both giving and receiving penetration, its good to know which positions will work best with you depending on what you plan on doing during that session.
Extension-Intolerant, Receiving Penetration
If arching or extending your back increases your back pain, you are extension-intolerant. If you are receiving penetration and extension-intolerant, try the missionary position. Adding a low-back support, such as a thin pillow, can also help keep the spine in a more neutral to slightly flexed position.
Flexion-Intolerant, Receiving Penetration
For those receiving penetration who are flexion-intolerant (bending forward hurts your back), the findings suggest trying side-by-side spooning or doggy-style with the receiver supporting their upper body with their hands.
Extension-Intolerant, Giving Penetration
For those giving penetration and extension-intolerant try missionary on elbows or side-by-side spooning.
Flexion-Intolerant, Giving Penetration
For those giving penetration who are flexion-intolerant, try doggy style with the receiver supporting their upper body on their hands. Additionally, the study recommends a hip-hinging motion rather than thrusting when penetrating, to conserve spinal movement.
Some examples of recommended sex positions based on types of low back pain are highlighted in the figure at the bottom of this article:
https://www.practicalpainmanagement.com/treatments/psychological/improving-sex-lives-patients-chronic-pain
For more information on back pain with sex check out this previous blog post.
Ongoing hip issues such as hip impingement can put a damper on your sex life. Sex can require a lot of interesting positions and hip motions, which are not always ergonomic and can add to hip pain, instability, and injury.
You will need to master a “hip hinge” movement rather than a thrusting motion.
Rear Entry positions that will keep your legs in a neutral position
Rear Entry positions that will keep your legs in a neutral position
https://feminapt.com/blog/sex-and-your-hip-impingement-position-matters
**This information is for educational purposes only and is not intended to replace the advice of your doctor.
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**some edits made by Heather Jeffcoat, DPT
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